...we all are scared of being alone. One thing we miss to understand is
that loneliness in us is created when we ignore finding time for
ourselves. We wake up each morning with the thought of being happy
around others, being happy with others
and being happy because of others. WRONG. Learn to be content with just
being yourself without attracting the vibe of happiness from others. We
only become lonely when we cant stand sight of being on our own.
Don't be too scared of losing those in your life to the point you
become scared of yourself. Those who matter most in your life they'll
always be there and just because someone walks out of you it don't mean
that you are bad or unable of maintaining friends, nope. God brings the
right people in your life at the right time and so does He also take
away people out of your life at a certain time for reasons best known to
Him. Use the lonely time to grow and know yourself, cease bungee
jumping in relationships. Sometimes it is good to fall and remain on the
ground; it helps you to see the view from below.
You are what
and where you are for a reason. Nothing is a coincidence and ALWAYS,
ALWAYS remember you are never alone for God is with you. Well view it
this way. When we were young, our parents always yearned to spend time
with us and at times they'd take us away from our friends just so that
they can be with us, so does God...He wants us for Him too, thus comes
moments that He is forced to drive us to solitude so that we can be with
Him too. It's as simple as that but we are always blinded and deceived
that it is at that time that God has forsaken us.
Don't also
forget that the enemy will also always bring the wrong people at the
right time in our lives to keep us from what is meant for us.
Use solitude/loneliness to grow...~ ♥ GG
0 comments:
Post a Comment